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Mommy Makeover: FAQ

February 20, 2020 By houseofhargrove@gmail.com

Since I started sharing my Mommy Makeover journey I have had lots of questions so I wanted to try to answer them all in 1 spot so yall could reference it.  Here are some Mommy Makeover FAQ.

  • WAS IT HARD TO GET IN & OUT OF A CHAIR AFTER SURGERY?
    • Yes, the first week it is really hard.  You cannot use your stomach muscles at all.  Not only is it extremely painful, but they are totally numb and basically don’t work.  I had muscle repair on my abs so it was no joke.  The lift chair was life.  I cannot imagine surviving this surgery without one!
  • DID YOU HAVE TO EAT EXTRA PROTEIN OR DO ANY SPECIAL DIET AFTER SURGERY?
    • Yes, my doctor wanted me to get 120 grams of protein a day after surgery to help with healing.  I also had to have a gallon of water.  The first 3 days they wanted me to have electrolytes instead of water so I drank Propel.  Protein and hydration are super important.
  • WHAT DOES A MOMMY MAKEOVER COST?
    • This varies greatly depending on the doctor.  I got quotes from $20-60k for the same exact procedures.  I would think $25-30K would be a good estimate.
  • DOES INSURANCE COVER THE SURGERY?
    • Some insurance does cover plastic surgery if it is medically necessary.  Some people who have had extreme weight loss need skin removal surgery due to skin rashes, etc.  I was not in this situation, but it is a thing.  They only cover certain procedures though.  You would need to work with your doctor and insurance company.
  • ANY CHANCE TO GET DISABILITY AFTER SURGERY?
    • I honestly have no idea.
  • WHAT LABS DID YOU NEED?
    • My doctor required a metabolic work up before surgery to check all my levels and my blood clotting ability.  I was able to order them through Request a Test and save a lot of money!
  • HAVE MUCH WEIGT HAVE YOU LOST FROM SKIN BEING REMOVED?
    • I don’t know yet.  I am dying to find out.  I go to my check up appointment at 7 weeks and there they should tell me how much skin was removed and how many liters of fat were removed from my liposuction.
  • HOW LONG ARE YOU DOWN FROM REGULAR ACTIVITIES?
    • This also varies.  I would say at about 2-3 weeks you can resume a more normal life.  For me it was a month because I had to wear foam under my garments.  I would not have been able to go back to work with the foam because you cant wear normal clothes.  Luckily I work from home so it wasn’t an issue, but I had no business going in public.  You will still be sore at 2/3 weeks, but you could make it work if you needed too and there were no unforeseen complications.
  • TYPE OF IMPLANTS? OVER/UNDER MUSCLE? DID I GET A LIFT?
    • I did High Profile 385cc implants under the muscle with no lift.
  • HOW BAD WAS THE PAIN ON A SCALE FROM 1-10?
    • I address the pain level at each week here (week 1, week 2, week 3, week 4).  It honestly changed week to week on level and what the pain was.  Overall I would say if you stay on your meds and follow doctor rules the pain is very manageable.  It was definitely painful,  but nothing that cannot be done.
  • MUST HAVES FOR POST OP RECOVER?
    • I wrote all about must haves for a mommy makeover here.  I am telling you. . .these things are game changers.  I cannot imagine having this surgery without these items.
  • WHAT DID I SAY TO MY KIDS ABOUT PLASTIC SURGERY?
    • My kids are 8 and 5 and I just told them that after having a baby there were some things that mommy wanted to have fixed.  That was all.  I was prepared for more questions, but shockingly, they didn’t really ask much more.  I don’t want my kids thinking about looks, weight or any of those things so I wanted to be sensitive as I explained this.  I gave them as little as possible, but that satisfied what they needed.  I also told them they could ask me any questions they had.  I feel like as parents sometimes we elaborate too much and give more info than they need or really even want.
  • HOW DOES IT COMPARE TO A C-SECTION?
    • I am not sure.  I didn’t have a C-section.  
  • CAN YOU STAND STRAIGHT AFTER SURGERY?
    • It is hard to stand up straight for a while.  Your stomach feels so tight.  I would say I didn’t stand up straight until about a month.  It is easier the more you are up and moving around, but if you have been sitting for awhile, or just woke up it takes a while to get loosened up.

Hopefully you found these mommy makeover FAQ answers helpful.  If you have any other questions leave them in the comments below and I will try to answer them.

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YOU CAN CHECK OUT ALL OF MY PLASTIC SURGERY  & WEIGHT LOSS POSTS HERE.

**IF YOU’VE HAD OR ARE INTERESTED IN GASTRIC SLEEVE SURGERY OR MOMMY MAKEOVER TYPE OF PLASTIC SURGERY JOIN THE HOH PRIVATE FACEBOOK COMMUNITY WHERE WE CAN ALL SHARE OUR STORIES, GET QUESTIONS ANSWERED AND CHEER EACH ON DURING OUR INDIVIDUAL JOURNEYS.  I AM HOPING THIS WILL BE A VERY HELPFUL RESOURCE FOR EVERYONE CONSIDERING/OR HAVE HAD THESE PROCEDURES.

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