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New House Update: Lot Prep

January 18, 2021 By houseofhargrove@gmail.com

After what seemed like a lifetime we have finally started moving in the house building process!  2021 is going to be such an exciting year and I cannot wait to take yall along on this journey.  If you enjoy house stuff, be sure to stay tuned.  I will be sharing the process step by step: layout details, design ideas, material selections, mood boards, etc.  Should be so much fun (and a bit overwhelming).  Today is all about bringing you up to speed and lot prep!

BACKGROUND: We bought a lot almost 2 years ago.  We started interviewing builders, etc and finally decided on Joe Vastano with Joseph Paul Homes and could not be happier.  I will be sharing a ton more about him and making that decision in a separate post.  Anyway, from there we started designing and I had approximately 4,834 changes (Sorry Joe).  Luckily, Joe was super patient with me.  We got a design and then went to plot it on the land and realized we needed to flip it to work on our lot better.  Our lot is basically a forest so we wanted to try to save as many trees as possible and flipping it just worked better.  Once we flipped it we realized our driveway was going into a landscape easement that we were not able to build in.  We tried to get an exception of 5 feet and were denied (insert some tears here). 

Where we live the lot guidelines are a little crazy.  We have 2 acres, but our lot is narrow and deep and regardless of your land layout with 2 acres they require 50 foot build lines on each side.  This makes designing a house tricky, especially when we wanted a 1 story!  For example my friend has 1 acre out here and her home was able to be 30 feet wider than mine even though we have double the land!  It is kinda crazy.  Anyway, due to the fact we got denied, we had to make some changes.

Joe was a miracle worker and we went back to the drawing board and redesigned a huge chunk of the house.  Needless to say 2020 was constantly being 2020 during this whole house process!  Silver lining though is when Joe was done with his magic work I loved the new design even better!  We moved the garage to the front of the house and its everything I had ever hoped for.  We are designing a timeless house that is Southern Living meets Cape Cod!  I cannot wait to share more!

Ok, now that you are caught up. . . in December we closed on our loan (had to wait til final designs were done) and started clearing our lot!  This was super exciting because our lot was a jungle and now that it is cleared out we can actually see where our house will go!

LOT PREP:

BEFORE:

This first pictures was taken a while ago, the vines under the trees got massive.  Some were taller than me!!

This was one of our family photos take 2 years ago when we were under contract for the lot!

AFTER:

We tried to save as many trees as possible.  It looks so bare now in this photo, but there will be house and driveway where the empty parts are.  There are still tons of trees.  It is really hard to get a photo that captures all of them.  The kids are standing in our future circle drive.

The tractor is sitting about where our future pool will be going.

Braden was having a blast in all the wood piles.  It was really hard seeing the trees knocked down.  I am ready to see the empty space filled out with house!

Now that we cleared the trees and finished lot prep, the next couple of weeks will be trenching for plumbing, inspections, and form boards.  I am ready to get passed this phase and on to the actual framing!  That is when the real fun starts!

It actually snowed in Texas this weekend.  If you know anyone in Texas this was a HUGE deal.  Of course we had to come out to the new lot and see it in the snow.  Here we are soaking it all in.

Hopefully I will have more to share really soon!

If you are building a new home you might find this post helpful.  I took a poll from all of you on your must haves in building a custom home and yall delivered!  So many helpful ideas HERE.

Find all of our NEW HOME (SOUTHERN CAPE COD) posts HERE.

Comments

  1. Kim says

    January 18, 2021 at 9:19 am

    Congratulations on breaking ground! I know you must be super excited and can’t wait to finally move in!
    Can’t wait to see the final product!

    • houseofhargrove@gmail.com says

      January 19, 2021 at 9:58 am

      Thank you so much. Yes, we are very excited!

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To be honest, I am not a huge traditional pumpkin pie fan.  However, this pumpkin pie my mom made growing up is my all time favorite.  It is pumpkin flavored, but very light.  It is absolutely delicious. If you are hosting this year or bringing a dessert, I highly recommend trying this Pumpkin Chiffon Pie!  It is sure to be a family & crowd favorite!

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This was one of my favorite stops on our fall New England trip. Seriously the most charming town. Think Star Hollows!

Everything was walkable and oh so charming.

🍁 TO DO:
*on the way to Woodstock check out Cold Hollow Cider Mill & get some donuts

•Sugarbush Farm: maple syrup & locally crafted cheese
•explore downtown: lots of cute shops (121 Home, F.H. Gillingham & Sons)
•get ice cream at Woodstock Scoops
•visit covered bridges: Middle Bridge (in town), Taftsville bridge
•Woodstock Inn..absolutely stunning! Get lots of pictures
•walk Pleasant St and see the famous pumpkin fence house & other gorgeous homes

🍁 FOOD:
•Montvert
•Soulfully Good Cafe

We stayed at The Shire. It was perfect for our family. Had a cute little market across the street that we picked some food up at one night and just went back to our room and watched a movie. We picked Goodwill Hunting since we were headed to Harvard the next day. It was a fun little evening.

we didn’t have time for this, but lots of people go hike  Quechee Gorge which is nearby & supposed to be incredible. 

We did Stowe & Woodstock and although I liked both, Woodstock was my favorite.
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Driving around New England in the fall is spectacular. Everything looks like a painting. 

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Salem surprised us… 
it was so much more than witches and Halloween. It’s a cute coastal town full of charm! Brick streets, cobblestone, gorgeous architecture, beautiful parks old candy shops…such a cute town.

You will hear mixed reviews. Some people love it at Halloween. Some people say avoid it. Yes it’s crowded, yes it’s touristy, but we loved it. We love Hocus Pocus so we soaked in all of that fun, but then we explored and really saw how beautiful everything was when you get outside of the main downtown area.

We were there a couple of hours & got everything in. It’s the perfect day trip from Boston. 

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•Explore downtown
•get a picture with the Bewitched statue
•We took a self guided Hocus Pocus tour (see my other reel with all the spots and addresses), there are tons of guided ones if you prefer that
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•check out the backyard at Ropes Mansion
•stroll Essex Street (keep walking straight past Ropes Mansion-Allison’s house in Hocus Pocus) & you’ll walk right into a gorgeous neighborhood full of Colonial homes. 
•go see Max & Dani’s house from the movie & explore that neighborhood. More gorgeous homes right on the coast
•Pioneer Village was fun to see
•if you’re into all the spooky stuff there are tons of tours and museums you can check out.

We had pizza at Flying Saucer & it was delicious. It was a fun little Halloween festive stop for us that we all enjoyed.
Almost everything is walkable.

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Best road trip advice...just pull over!

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📍Stowe, Vermont

We visited Stowe in Mid October last year. The weather was absolutely gorgeous and the leaves didn’t disappoint. We were there during the week so it wasn’t overly crowded.
It had a small town, relaxed feel, but was bigger than some of the other places we visited. In the winter it’s a big ski town & it definitely had that vibe. 

We went with kids and it was a great family spot. We focused on kid friendly activities and restaurants.

EXPLORE DOWNTOWN:
⛪️ See the beautiful Stowe Community Church
🛍️ Explore the cute shops (Country Store on Main & Farm Home Marketplace were some of my favorites)
🥞 Breakfast at The Butlers Pantry...pro tip...it’s a very popular quaint restaurant in the heart of downtown with long waits BUT you can join the Yelp waitlist online before you go. We were able to walk right in
📸 Picture in front of the Stowe mural on the side of Laughing Moon Chocolates

VIEWS:
•Smugglers Notch Drive
•Gondola Sky Ride
•Drive on mountain road (just outside of downtown) for lots of great picture spots. This video is taken from a lookout about 2 min out of downtown.

ACTIVITIES:
🌽 Percy Farm corn maze was a hit with the kids
•Brookdale Bridge is close by and beautiful
🎶 Von Trapp Lodge & Brewery are worth seeing. Beautiful views & you can get a day pass to enjoy the incredible property

OTHER POPULAR ATTRACTIONS:
🍦 Ben & Jerry’s factory tour 
🍎 Cold Hollow Cider Mill
•Gold Brook Covered Bridge

#stowe #stowevermont #leafpeeping #fallvibes #ilovefall #travelnewengland #fallroadtrip #autumnvibes #falltravel #autumninnewengland #stowevt #falltravel
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🧀BUILD A CHARCUTERIE SPREAD PARTY🧀

Ok y’all…you need to throw this party! 
SO.MUCH.FUN & so easy!

So the idea is everyone brings their favorite item for a charcuterie board to the party. Can be a cheese, cracker, dip, but, meat, jelly, sweet…you get the idea.
Then by the end of the night you leave with some new ideas for your own parties.

It’s a great time of year to host to get new ideas before the busy holiday/hosting season.

I just put butcher paper out on my island and got the board started with a few of my favorites. Then as guests rolled in the continued to add to the spread.

It was so yummy & easy. Guests only need to bring 1 item and the host doesn’t have to provide a ton.

I highly recommend throwing this party with your group of friends!!

Great good, great company…such a wonderful night!
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❤️What’s your favorite item on a charcuterie board?? Share in the comments!

**one of the top items was a biscuit stuffed with Boursin cheese**

**last party’s top item was: baby arugula with avocado oil, lemon juice, salt and pepper- season to taste. Then take a little bunch of arugula and wrap 1/2 a slice of prosciutto around it**

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